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Lately, it seems that everyone wants to try to get something, but only on sites like 43things.com. Ambitions in these pages, run the gamut from a desire to better organized, reaching the world to make the journey more money. If you're a working mother, you know, you are just as ambitious as any other out there. They also know that his career is the vehicle for achieving these objectives. Unfortunately, you probably feel like you are barely able to keep his head above watermuch less establish any goals, to bring home a paycheck. To complicate things even more, working mothers have to jump the obstacles that their colleagues do, probably have not even on the radar.
Mothers are working two jobs - as mothers and as employees. There is no way to keep your family life to seep into the world of work. You can leave your work at the office, but you can always leave the family home. How many times you have to work on thisearly to bring a sick child to the doctor or attend a parent-teacher? Do you want to "hidden" off-site direct from the five (if you have finished your work or not), so that the child is not the last one was back on after school -? Did you feel like your efforts are made to the company and your career in danger, if your family first? As if all that juggling is not stressful enough, the second round starts as soon as your "outside the"ends at home jobs. there is dinner, homework, little league, dance, scouts, and so on and so forth.
An equally important challenge is the difficult task that every decision you make weight, between the demands of family and the welfare of your career. You entertain your clients or drinks with the boss after work or go to your son's baseball game? Contact the Council for the promotion that his family moved around the country, or you put your careerpushed the muted until the children are grown? It's never an easy decision, and I bet that tend to second guess your decisions and feel guilty, no matter what your choice. In fact, I think it is in another segment of the population that feels so much guilt, as working mothers.
Let's face it, mothers are working because they needed - or they need the income they need to satisfy their desire to work, and / or the need for a better life for their children is to give the impression thatpossible income tax. But if you're always stressed, is spent on the run, and not some precious time with your children, with a satisfying career, or which causes discomfort for your family? This is one of those times when you pay to do it well. If you work for themselves, should not for a career that is rewarding, both intrinsically and financially, and you can enjoy your family life?
For working mothers, life is hard (as if I were tosay)! They are constantly pulled in different directions, we promised to do miracles that few could afford, and take care of everyone around you - all without dropping a single ball and a smile on your face. And somehow manage to undress her, day after day. Not always with a smile and sometimes a ball or two drops, but the ship remains afloat - even if it means that their goals get pushed aside. But would not it be nice if it were not so difficult? E 'can haveEverything - a great career and a life full of meaning of family - no job more difficult than they already do. The key to success lies in:
priority. What comes first, in this moment? How do you know if your attention when you do not know what is more important?
find time for these priorities. How do you put them all in time for your family, your career and yourself - without it?
objectives. As you know in which directionto go, if you have not set the goals of the business? Quickly if you wear them to walk in circles. You know what you want life, personally, professionally and economically?
Planning. A comprehensive plan to achieve your goals, focused and on track.
make decisions that are in line with your priorities. This is the number one key to the elimination of debt and you feel comfortable with your decisions.
environment itselfwith a community of support. Have you ever noticed that you are around people who are drowning in misery that they bring with them? The reverse is true as well. If you are surrounded by people who are positive, goal-oriented and support your posture and increase the possibilities are truly endless.
A Rolodex full of resources. Nobody can or should try to do it alone. Access to resources that can collect, in which you want to stop doingthe difference in the world.
With these steps, you enable yourself. You are in control of a chaotic situation in a positive, meaningful life and career that is rewarding and offers the lifestyle - all with less stress and guilt. This means that a better mother for your children, a better partner for your sweetheart, and a happy YOU.
Your task
The first step in taking control of chaos is. What is more important priorities for you right now? We have to strike a better balance between work and family? Make more money? Spend more time with your children and others more important? Whatever tops the list with three steps you can take steps to get up to get closer to your goals. Keep the top priority in the mind at any time and you will see that your decision-making and facilitate discussion of the debt, you will begin to fade.
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